stop and enjoy the holidays:)

with Christmas coming up we haven't been able to concentrate too much on the wedding. It would be unlike me not to think about Christmas, the weather, work, money, the wedding, the dog's much needed hair cut, paying bills, cleaning, home projects....SO it has been hard to understand when J says "why don't we just put it out of our minds till after the 1st of the year". What? What does thattttt mean?

so I will secretly stress about it;)

I've been mentally making small decisions, like the cupcakes. And hopefully the ideas that I'm coming up with will save us a little money in the long run. I've come to realize that I have about a million ideas and would LOVE to give our guests gift bags when they arrive, a goodbye present, favors and have all those be completely unique and fit me and J to a T. But obviously that just isn't in our budget. Poo.

so I'm going to stop mentally spending our savings and take a 'break' till after the 1st of the year!

Happy Holidays everyone, ENJOY it and as my Wayyyy too laid back fiance would say "just put it off till after the 1st of the year";)