go big. OR small.

breaking news: the idea of doing a SMALL, immediate family ceremony is baccccckkk on the table! Something about it just trips my fancy! And it's easier and it's cheaper and it's just US and yeah. It's harrrrd to decide.

So at this point we're throwing it back out there and now waiting it out. Seeing how we feel come September when the wedding is FINALLY a year away and then making a final decision!

but looking at the pictures below...I remember why I wanted some people there. I mean, we were only talking about 100 friends and family but something about that has still never felt quite right. And one thing me and J agreed on was that we want it to feel right. Maybe we're putting too much pressure on this one day. But to us it's not really pressure. It's just that everything else about us and the things we have planned and the life we have together DOES feel right. And so because this is alllll about us....it's just got to be right!

decision to come...t-minus 5 months:)

1 and 2/ courthouse wedding pics above courtesy of 100 Layer Cake

- Best wedding site out there. Go there if you're getting married, getting remarried, your friend's friend is getting married...SO worth it:)

3 and 4/ cute medium-ish sized wedding pics courtesy of Style Me Pretty

- also...tremendous site...worth your time:)